This season is calling us to pass this test once and for all.  God is asking us to reach a level that most of us have never seen. He needs us to master this level so we can be used for the next chapter.  Our current mindsets and behaviors will not make it where He is moving us. Many have struggled with the same issue(s) and demons for decades.  God has given you chance after chance to slay that giant, but we fail to do so. We can longer pay the sale’s price for grace.  God has freely given us chance after chance to overcome whatever our struggles have been.  He has shown us patience beyond our understanding because that is they kind of God we serve.  He gives freely without asking anything in return.

We are now entering a season where we can no longer get everything on credit.  God is asking ( not making) us to step into a realm where we no longer battle the same old same old.  He is asking us to enter into a dimension with  Him that we have never seen before.  Things can no longer be...

There is no denying many of us have been going through the most difficult times of our lives these last few months.  It seems around every corner we are taking another direct punch to the gut. However, many of us are also being pulled to come out a different version of ourselves.  We know that this season is requiring us to step up our game.  Situations, people, and jobs that use to fulfill us no longer seem relevant. If you have been following my blogs you will know that we are going through the cycle of transformation. 

God is evolving every aspect of who we are.  He is changing mindsets, thought processes, and so much more.  If you are like me, than you have had quite the emotional and physical roller coaster ride during this process.  Hopefully it is one you do not want to have to go through again.  I know I don’t.  As we start to emerge and head back out into the world I want to make sure you take the new you along.   We need to make sure we leave our old versions of ourselves wh...

Lately I  have been thinking about all the changes and stages that we go through in a lifetime. If We are in a constant state of growth. (If we allow it to occur)  Just when we think that we have a life mastered we find ourselves reaching for the next  level. We are going from glory to glory. For those of us that choose to follow this path there is a cycle that we follow.  It is like the metamorphosis of a butterfly.  We go through a  transformation.  It is hard, but so worth it.  Of course we are constantly changing, but the process does not.  

I started listing what I thought were the steps to a cycle of transformation a few months ago. To be honest I was having a difficult time putting pen to paper.  I had a few things written down, but it was not until I heard my Pastor, Toure Roberts, preach on a very similar topic that things clicked. I thank God for him because he gave me the words that I could not find.  

Cycle of Transformation

1. Conviction - revelation of in proper alignment.
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When most of us think of memories we usually try to ponder fond days at the lake or spending time with family and friends. When some think of memories unfortunately, they go to darker places filled with fear and anxiety. Have you ever stopped to consider what memories are and how they can affect our everyday lives? Oh I'm not downplaying the importance of remembering. The problem lies in the obscure, remote, and often unknown ways your memories keep us from progressing towards our goals and dreams.

Did you know that how you think and how you feel unite to comprise a series of electrical and chemical neurological impulse combinations to create your State of Being? And these mental and emotional concoctions of the brain are as addictive as any drug known to man (both legal and illegal). 

When it comes to who we are and what gives us true joy and peace we are compelled to consider what thoughts, ideas, and feelings led us to where we are today.

It is important to have the ability to re...

Something has been weighing so heavy on my spirit during this challenging season. So many are scared and miserable with the way their life is, but cannot/ will not change their circumstances.  There is a common denominator in each case. Fear! There is a fear of showing the world the real you... the authentic you. We are so afraid to be authentic because it leads us to being vulnerable.  When we are vulnerable in our empty, we fear the judgement, persecution, and facing the empty.  We have to SEE what and where we lack.  However, in a way we are most alive when we are in “our empty” We must learn to live in these places because this is where God can work with us the most.  It is there that we will be able hear the voice of God, and make the necessary changes so we can reach our fullest potential. 

Instead of facing and dwelling in this place(s) we distract ourselves with friends, work, and family to avoid being alone and feeling the pain. We must learn to live in the hollow/empty places....

Have you ever worked for something and maybe did not fully reach the goal you had set out to achieve, but you learned so much?  The world calls this  failure.  Or do you seem to have it all (money, houses, cars, and great friends), but you are still depressed and unhappy? In the world's eyes they would be a success. 

This has always been baffling to me.  I  wonder how is it a failure when you were taught so many valuable lessons, make great memories, and grew so much during the journey?  And how is someone a success when their spirit is dying and all some can do is cry? 

The answer is what drives you...faith or fear? The way the flesh/world measures success compared to the spirit/God is vastly different.  We are made of flesh, but we are spiritual beings. It is like there are two sides that are in a constant battle for our attention. This is why one person's definition of failure and success can be so different in then our own.  It all depends on through what set of eyes you are look...

Many are wondering why others seem to be more successful and reach the goals they set for themselves. Yet when they try they seem to fall short every time. The difference between those that do and those that don’t is simple... knowing your weaknesses. 

I am sure we all have heard that you are only as strong as your weakest link. The same can be said when it  comes to us personally.   We are in a time where life as we know it has stopped and the world seems like it turned upside down.  I like to think it is turning right side up. Nonetheless, many people have been asking themselves where they fit into this new world. They are wondering why what once fulfilled them is suddenly no longer what they want to do.  You might be feeling anxious and like you are in a state of limbo. You know you are called for more, but are not sure where to start looking.  The first step is looking within.

You are not alone.  Many clients and friends have come to me as a Life Strategist and asked me what it i...

As if everyday life was not stressful enough. We have been thrown into a season of pure chaos.  Our daily lives have changed literally overnight.  Our world has turned up side down in a blink of an eye. It is easier now than ever before to get  overwhelmed.

If you are someone that seems to  get bogged down and fear of everyday life overtakes your rational thinking try & remember life is a series of  little decisions. We don't have to have all of the answers right now.  Not everything needs to be figured out. It is ok to take a step back and just breathe. Do your your best to look at the big picture that .Try to focus on the that this too shall pass and that if you really look at things you have all you need for today!

If you are one that just wants a trial over asap no matter what the cost and all you see is the big picture. If you are one to forge through with your head down and only focus on the end, then I want to encourage you to take a step back as well.  Only you need to see th...

Here is part  2 of our mental health awareness series.  Please make sure to check it out, and start a conversation with those that you love.  And if you are the one struggling with your mental health reach out for the help that you need!  God Bless.